We ask ourselves questions?
Is it going to work?
Will they like it?
Now because we are not certain in success we usually take 1 of 2 actions.
The difference between successful people and the rest, is successful people put in 100% effort and realise that no matter what the outcome they are winners.
Wayne Bennett coach of the Brisbane Broncos can regularly look dissapointed after a win and happy after a loss. (well as happy as Wayne can look)
You see Wayne as a great coach knows that win or lose a game its sometimes out of the players control. But what they can control is the effort they put in. I have seen so many times Wayne congratulates the team for a great effort after a loss, and chastises the team after a win that wasn't deserved.
It is time put in 100% and congratulate yourself for the effort. Whatever you do, DON'T LET FEAR HOLD YOU BACK.